若い時の苦労は買ってもせよわかいときのくろうはかってもせよことわざheavy work in youth is quiet rest in old agespare no effort while you are young
衣食足りて礼節を知るいしょくたりてれいせつをしることわざonly when basic needs for living are met can people spare the effort to be politethe poor can't afford manners